MY PARENTING

YOU KNOW WHAT REALLY MAKES ME MAD IS THESE STARS LEAVING THEIR KIDS WITH NANNIES AND GOING ALL OVER THE COUNTRY AND WORLD WITHOUT THEM. MY DAUGHTER STAYED THE NIGHT WITH MY PARENTS LAST NIGHT LESS THAN A MILE AWAY AND I WAS FREAKING OUT. I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW THEY CAN DO IT.

YOU HAVE THIS BABY ITS A LIL YOU AND YOU LEAVE IT FOR WEEKS TO DO THIS THING WHATEVER IT MAY BE. MOST STARS BY THE TIME THEY HAVE CHILDREN HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO LIVE OFF OF IN THE FIRST PLACE AND Y NOT JUST RENT A HOUSE THERE FOR WHATEVER THE TIME AND TAKE THEM WITH YOU. MOST STARS CHILDREN DON'T GO TO A NORMAL SCHOOL ANYWAY.

IT ALSO MAKES ME MAD TO SEE THESE PARENTS WHO SCREAM I NEED A BREAK FROM THESE KIDS THEY DIDN'T ASK TO BE BORN AND THEY ONLY STAY SMALL FOR SO LONG. I REALLY ENJOYED GETTING UP WITH GLORIA IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT UNTIL MY HUSBAND ASKED TO DO IT. I GAVE HIM A CHANCE AND I CANT WAIT TIL THE WEEKEND AND I CAN SPEND ALL MY TIME WITH MY FAMILY. THERE WAS A TIME I DID SPEND ALL MY TIME WITH MY DAUGHTER AND NEVER NEEDED A BREAK.

YES SOMETIMES I NEED TIME WITH ADULTS THAT'S Y THEY MAKE BEDTIME SO ME AND MY HUSBAND CAN HAVE OUR TIME. AND MOST OF THE TIME WE END UP FALLING ASLEEP WATCHING THE NEWS. YES MY LIL GIRL IS 4 MONTHS AND U GUYS COULD BE THINKING WAIT BUT I KNOW I LIVED WITH MY SISTER AND SPENT EVERY SECOND I COULD WITH HER 4 KIDS. SHE HAS 4 SMALL KIDS BETWEEN THE AGES OF 7 AND 3 AND NEVER YELLS THAT SHE NEEDS A BREAK FROM THEM. OUR ADULT TIME WAS AFTER THEY WENT TO BED. YES THEN WE ALL FELL ASLEEP WATCHING THE NEWS LOL.

YOU ONLY HAVE SUCH A SHORT TIME WITH THEM BECAUSE WHEN THEY GET BIGGER AND ALL TEENAGERS THEY WANT TO DO THEIR OWN THING SO Y NOT HAVE AS MUCH FUN AS POSSIBLE. I DON'T MEAN SPOIL THEM I MEAN HAVE FUN. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THEM DRAWING ON THE WALLS? OR MAKING A HUGE MESS? AS LONG AS YOU MAKE MEMORIES NOT ONLY FOR THEM FOR YOU TO TELL YOUR GRAND KIDS. OR EVEN YOUR FRIENDS. TELL EM IT DOESN'T FEEL GOOD TO TELL YOUR FRIENDS A HILARIOUS MOMENT THAT HAPPENED WITH YOUR KIDS? OR MAKE THEM THINK TWICE ABOUT HOW THEY PARENT?

MY 3 YEAR OLD STEP SON I ALLOW TO GET OUT ALL THE TUPPERWARE IN THE HOUSE AND HE WEARS IT AS SHOES AND A HAT. MAKES DRUMS AND GOD KNOWS WHAT ELSE. IT TAKES 30 MINUTES TO CLEAN IT UP OK SOMETIMES AN HOUR AND HE HAS AN AFTERNOON OF FUN. YES I HAVE TO WASH THEM AND YES IT IS MORE TIME I HAVE TO TAKE AWAY FROM OTHER THINGS I HAVE TO DO BUT LET ME TELL YOU ITS WORTH IT SINCE I HAVE DOZENS OF CUTE PICTURES I CAN BLACKMAIL HIM WITH LATER LOL. JUST KIDDING BUT U CANT BUY MEMORIES LIKE THIS.

LIKE MY GRANDMOTHER SAID SOMETIMES THE CLEANUP IS ALLOT MORE THAN WE BARGAINED FOR BUT ITS WORTH EVERY MINUTE IF THERE ARE MEMORIES WE CAN TAKE TO OUR GRAVES.